Beauty standards and cosmetic procedures for menConsent in unsolicited intimate messagesDeleting intimate photos after relationships end

All nudes should be deleted once a relationship ends. Feat Emily Ratajkowski

Jul 11, 2025 · 2:14

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Emily Ratajkowski brings a spicy take about relationship nudes that gets an immediate pushback from a married straphanger who declares himself "anti-nude" across the board. He's not keeping exes' photos because he deletes everything on sight, even unsolicited pics that pop up while he's typing emails at work. Emily argues the only reasons to hold onto nudes are creepy ones, whether it's still using them or wielding them as power, noting that revenge porn is real. The conversation pivots hard when Emily suggests men should embrace aesthetic procedures like hair plugs and facials to even out beauty standards, maybe even blow the whole system up. She's got specific preferences too: long legs, thick thighs, and covered ankles on men. The straphanger agrees, hijab-style. They land on common ground about deleting nudes, though his reasoning involves taking the Quran seriously, which catches Emily off guard.

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So, what's your take? All nudes should be deleted once a relationship ends.

100% disagree.

Why? Because I think that you shouldn't send nudes at all.

Wow. I'm anti-nude. I don't want them. I don't want to see them.

You don't want it? Nope.

But you're only Unless it's from my wife.

Okay. Do you send nudes? Of course not. Why would I send nudes?

I don't know. I'm anti-nudes. That's my take.

So, that's a crazy take because people do send a lot of nudes. And I think the only reason to hold on to nudes is like either because you're still jerking off to them, which is like not okay, or it's like a power thing, which is just like, you know, revenge porn is a real thing. But I'm surprised it's I have a question. I just want to follow. You've never received a nude in your life. No, no, of course I have. I delete them.

Okay. If I'm sitting there minding my business, I'm at the office and typing emails just

Bless you. And then all of a sudden I get a freaking bing on my phone and it's a set of titties.

An unsolicited noob. I say don't send me this.

Yeah, because they're not asking for my consent. Consent came.

Well, I'm not a horned up monster.

Okay, great.

What else are you thinking about? Listen, I'm not about beauty standards, but since we're seems like we're moving more and more towards like accepting augmentation, I think like men are kind of falling behind in that way because there's such a taboo around like any aesthetic augmentation for men. And I'd like to normalize like all that so that men a can look better because like I want y'all to look better. I think definitely get the hair plugs.

Get the hair plugs. Do whatever. Get the facial. And then maybe like if men feel the pressure of the beauty standard, then maybe we'll blow it all up. Yeah.

I really like a long leg on a man. I like a thick thigh. I don't like an exposed ankle. Thank god. I got mine on hijabs. Don't worry.

I don't like an exposed ankle. I don't like ankle either.

Really? On a woman even. Sorry to scandalize you. I don't mind that.

This is just my personal preferences to be clear. Everybody can like what they like.

Yeah. But the one thing I know is all nudes should be deleted. I actually 100% agree with you. I just thought it was funny. I mean, I explained my joke.

I I know you really liked that. You don't think it was a good bit?

Yeah, you're married. I I know. No, that's not the bit. The bit is that people should take a book. They should take the Quran seriously.

Oh, wow.

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